You’re Showing Up But Are You Really There?
You RSVP. You smile, nod, and recycle the same surface-level questions.
You go home with a few cards. Nothing changes.
That’s autopilot networking, the illusion of momentum without results.
Especially for women, it’s a tightrope. Show too much interest and you look pushy. Hang back and you disappear. We’re told to be visible but not “too much.” So we keep it safe and forgettable.
Why We Go on Networking Autopilot
Fear of Being “Too Much.”
You don’t want to seem transactional, so you avoid asking for anything. The connection stays polite and pointless.
Social Overload.
Big, unstructured mixers reward elevator pitches, not real dialogue.
No Clear Objective.
Without a “why,” you measure success by how many hands you shook, not what came from them.
Zero Accountability.
The event ends. Real life starts. Follow-up gets awkward, then forgotten.
Most networking groups try to solve this with mandatory referral quotas or attendance tracking. But forced accountability turns connection into homework, and people either burn out or check boxes without caring.
WIBC is different. Our system is opt-in, peer-driven, and based on mutual interest. You’re accountable to someone you actually want to help, not a bureaucratic scorecard.
How to Wake Up Your Networking
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The 70/30 Rule
Spend 70 percent of the conversation learning. Ask about current priorities, not résumés.Better Questions
- What’s keeping you busiest this quarter?
- What kind of client lights you up right now?
Follow Up Like a Human
- When there isn’t: “I loved hearing about your pivot into consulting. I’m reworking my packages too. Want to swap notes next week?”
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Why Connection Is Business Development
Competition sharpens your edge. Connection expands your reach. You need both.
When your network sees you in action, they don’t just remember your name, they repeat it. Janelle didn’t pitch herself. Members vouched for her because they’d seen her expertise. That kind of trust shortens sales cycles and opens doors no cold pitch can.
The Commitment and the ROI
Cadence: Monthly meetups, in-person or virtual
Expectations: Show up, engage, follow up
Value: Most members replace one obligatory mixer with WIBC. Fewer rooms, better outcomes.
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Ready to Get Out of Cruise Control?
If you’re tired of collecting business cards from people you’ll never call, join a community where the follow-up is built in and the connections actually go somewhere.